Fighting for Custody of Your Child
Posted on March 8th, 2019 by Oddo & Babat, P.C.
Child Custody Attorney
The main concern for many parents trying to win custody of their child, is knowing what they need to do (or not do) to ensure that happens. Parents who are struggling to figure out how to showcase their best selves during the hearing, can rely on an attorney for some guidance. It can be an emotionally taxing task to try and think about what aspects of your life may be under scrutiny by the judge. They can give you advice as to the do’s and don’ts when presenting yourself in court.
Do: Remain Open to Joint Custody
Unfortunately, some parents have lost child custody battles because they were unwilling to cooperate with the other parent. Even though you may not like your former partner very much, he or she may still have to play an influential role in raising your child. In the eyes of the court, a child who can maintain a positive relationship with both parents equally is what is in their best interest. It can speak volumes to your dedication as a parent, to be open to the idea of sharing joint custody.
Don’t: Repeatedly Reschedule Visitation
If you are currently in an arrangement where you have scheduled visitation time with your child but have formed of habit of cancelling, it may appear to the court that you are being spiteful versus truly wanting sole custody. It can reflect poorly on your side if you haven’t been consistently and reliably visiting your child.
Do: Take the Time to Prepare Beforehand
One of the worst things a parent fighting for sole custody of a child can do, is walk into the courtroom unprepared. There is so much more to obtaining custody of your child than simply showing you want it the most. An attorney can help you gather useful information to show the judge, that emphasizes why you are the best choice. While some parents decide to represent themselves during child custody hearings, we strongly encourage you to not stand alone (especially if your former partner has hired an attorney).
Don’t: Decline an In-Home Evaluation
By requesting an in-home custody evaluation, it can show that you are willing to be open about your living space, in addition to making changes where needed. This can be a great tactic if you have a hunch that your former partner will claim that your home life isn’t a suitable environment to raise a child. If the judge does make suggestions for improvements, take these seriously and fulfill the requests promptly.
Parents who are in the midst of a child custody battle, often find they are relieved to have a child custody attorney offers by their side. They understand how scary it can be to imagine losing your child, if the other parent is awarded sole custody. They can advocate for your behalf in court, and answer any questions you have along the way.
I consulted with David the first time a couple of years ago on a serious matter that affected a very close member of my family. Not expecting a good experience from this serious situation coupled with an attorney consultation, the entire thing surprised me as it was pleasant, professional, and completely successful. We found him clear, direct, generous and extremely knowledgeable throughout the process. I give my very strongest recommendation
